My life has too much in it

Gotta stick with my Alice in Wonderland theme.  Not really, I don't have rules like that in my life.  But this picture is fun and pertains to how I feel most days.  Like I've got too much going on.  Which is kind of not true because there's a lot I don't have going on.  Like friends.  And fun.  At least this kind of fun:

Or this:

Or maybe even a little bit of this:

I think everyone envies those who are on vacation.  Lots of fun and money to blow on fun.  It's an escape from reality.  I know that there is a lot going on in my life.  And although it means I have a lot, much of it is undesired and takes up room for the stuff I want in my life.  I mean, I have accepted a lot of shitty situations in my life, and although they are temporary, they aren't going away for a while yet.  And that prevents me from doing other things.  Like having fun, or hanging out with friends, or doing fun random shit like I used to.

But it's also put a lot of things in perspective about the people I've met.  90% of them are flakes.  They're not reliable, solid dependable people.  Turns out most people depend on me, and that's a really bad idea.  I don't consider myself to be that solid and reliable, mostly because I can only do so much until it starts coming back to me from the other end.  I get burnt out too easily trying to hang out with people or plan things, and most of the time it never really pays off.  So I get a lazy attitude about it.  I get the mindset of "well if people would commit and show up, I'd throw a kick ass party" and stop trying.

But it's not just friendships I miss out on.  It's also free time to actually explore my hobbies and passions, travel, grow up a little more.  I like having things to do, like going to art museums for fun, going to the movies with a group of friends, hiking, having random responsibilities besides taking care of myself.  I don't have the kind of income to support that though, and that prohibits me from really enjoying a lot of what I'd like to do.  Instead I'm stuck paying bills, working when I can afford to, and incessantly stressing out about school and the inability to graduate.  Lots of unfun, icky and boring things that require lots of my time.  And then I wonder why I'm so burnt out when I actually have free time.

I guess when I'm over throwing temper tantrums and have time to calm down and take a step back to review my life with fresh eyes, I feel motivated and upbeat to get it all done.  But when you get down to the grind, everything sucks.  Here's looking forward to May.